John 11:17-37
When Jesus arrived at Bethany, He was told that Lazarus had already been in his grave for four days.
Bethany was only a few miles down the road from Jerusalem,
and many of the people had come to pay their respects and console Martha and Mary on their loss.
When Martha got word that Jesus was coming, she went to meet Him. But Mary stayed at home.
Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.”
“But even now I know that God will give You whatever You ask.”
Jesus told her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Those who believe in Me, even though they die like everyone else, will live again.”
“They are given eternal life for believing in Me and will never perish. Do you believe this, Martha?”
“Yes, Lord,” she told Him. “I have always believed You are the Messiah, the Son of God, the One who has come into the world from God.”
Then she left Him and returned to Mary. She called Mary aside from the mourners and told her, “The Teacher is here and wants to see you.”
So Mary immediately went to Him.
Now Jesus had stayed outside the village, at the place where Martha met Him.
When the people who were at the house trying to console Mary saw her leave so hastily, they assumed she was going to Lazarus’ grave to weep. So they followed her there.
When Mary arrived and saw Jesus, she fell down at His feet and said, “Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.”
When Jesus saw her weeping and saw the other people wailing with her, He was moved with indignation and deeply troubled.
“Where have you put him?” He asked them.
They told Him, “Lord, come and see.”
Then Jesus wept.
The people who were standing nearby said, “See how much He loved him.”
But some said, “This man healed a blind man. Why couldn’t He keep Lazarus from dying?”
Martha proclaimed that Jesus was the Messiah, the Son of God, the One who has come into the world – and this is all true. Jesus also wanted her to remind her that He is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the whole world. He is the One who conquers over sin and death – once for all.
Martha trusted Jesus and knew that He wanted only what was best for them. She knew that whatever He asked, His father in Heaven would do for Him. Mary in her vulnerability, perhaps being influenced by the professional mourners, was tempted to grieve as one who had no hope. Due to the overwhelming emotional pull at her heart, perhaps she’d forgotten the miraculous power Jesus had shown to prove His Deity, or His teachings which pointed to the hope of salvation and hope through what God was plannning to do through Him on the cross.
Many of His disciples also didn’t understand that Jesus’ Kingdom was not of this world. They were grieved that Jesus was headed to Judea and would be near Jerusalem where the Jewish leaders had plotted and tried to kill Him so many times before. They feared for His life.
Mary grieved over her brother’s death and perhaps felt disappointed in Jesus – thinking that He didn’t really care because He didn’t come to help them while Lazarus was still alive, two days earilier. She had sent word to Him, but He didn’t come. It appeared as thought He didn’t really love them. Mary’s faith was being tested by this trial.
She had previously sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His words of hope. She loved Jesus in believed in Him. Perhaps in the weakness of her flesh, she listened to the lies of the devil, who has been speaking the same lies since He deceived Eve in the Garden of Eden, that God didn’t really love Eve, but was trying to keep her from something good and from being like Him.
He lies to us today in the same manner. He will always try to tempts us when we are most vulnerable and susceptable to his lies. This is why our faith in Jesus is so foundationally important. We must guard our hearts and minds continually to keep from falling away from what we’ve heard and know about our loving, redeeming Savior and Lord.
Perhaps Mary was pressured due to the circumstances and gave a foothold to the devil by mistrusting Jesus’ motives, causing her faith to faulter. Being moved by her emotions and the temptation to doubt Jesus, she became grieved in the loss of her brother as one who has no hope, and her faith in Jesus was shaken.
This is something we all struggle with at times. We can be moved to think and act according to the fluctuation of our emotions, rather than thinking and acting by faith in God and allowing our emotions to follow. When we are led by our emotions, our faith can be shaken and we can be led astray, also.
Perhaps this is what had happened to Mary. Perhaps this is why Jesus was moved with indignation and deeply troubled when He saw Mary and the others with her grieving at Lazarus’ grave.
Sin always grieves our Savior’s heart. He paid a dear price on the cross for our sin. He wants us to know Him so well, that when we are tempted to doubt, we will remember His faithfulness and His promises. When we allow ourselves to be led by anything but faith, we sin against God. When we give into the temptation to be led by our emotions in our trials, we lose our firm footing of faith, and our trust in God is clouded by doubt.
As Jesus’ disciples, we want to please God. God says through apostle Paul in Hebrews 11:6 that apart from faith in Jesus, it’s impossible to please Him. We are reminded in Romans 14:23 that whatever is not done in faith is sin before God. We are reminded in 2 Cor. 5:7 to walk by faith and not by sight. God grieves over our sins. Our sins cost Jesus His life. Our sins grieve the Holy Spirit within us. In Hebrews 11:6 we are reminded that all who come to Jesus must come to Him by faith, we must believe that He is and that He is a rewarder of all who diligently seek Him. Sin is not a small matter with Jesus. We want to have the mind of Christ and to love what He loves and to hate what He hates. We can only do this if we will abide in Him and obey Him. In 1 John 1:9 we’re reminded that God extends His merciful grace and forgiveness toward us if we will confess our sin and repent. He reminds us in 1 Peter 1:3-7 that our faith in Christ will be tested. He tells us in 1 Cor. 10:13 that He has provided for us stand against the temptation to sin. We remain faithful to God by faith and trust in Him. In 2 Peter 3:18, we are encouraged to know Jesus and to grow in our relationship with Him. In James 1:12 we are reminded to be prepared for the trials and storms of life, as they will come. We are also encouraged that God promises to use the trials we face to show us approved by Him to receive the crown of life promised to all who love Him. Therefore, we must prepare ourselves ahead of time and continue in our walk of faith everyday. This is how we remain faithful to Jesus. This is how we abide in Him. God will deliver us, our responsiblity is to stay close to Jesus and show our love for Him by obeying Him, and by obeying His word.
Previously when Jesus came to the home of Lazarus, Mary and Martha (Luke 10:38-42) – He’d rebuked Martha for putting preparation and serving the guests above sitting at His feet, as Mary had done. Jesus taught Martha, “But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.” Vs.42 – Now it seems as though the sisters have reversed roles. Mary seems to be led by what she feels and sees, and Martha is is trusting in Jesus to intercede for them to His Heavenly Father. When Jesus arrived, Martha rushed out to meet Him. She gave testimony of His Deity and her trust in Him, but Mary stayed back until Jesus called for her. She fell at His feet in grief and accused Him of not caring. Certainly this grieved Jesus’ heart. No one cared more than He did. His ways are not man’s ways. He would be glorified by Lazarus’ death. But Mary lost sight of Who Jesus was and perhaps at that moment didn’t believe He was the Resurrection and the Life.
Jesus wept. Some who saw Him remarked how much He loved the family. Certainly Jesus deeply cared for Lazarus, Mary and Martha. Jesus was a man of great compassion for people who hurt and were in need. In His humanity, Jesus expressed His emotions with tears. Jesus is very approachable, very tenderhearted and loving. He cares so deeply for us, so much so that He gave His life to redeem us and to save us from death and hell. It was no small thing that Jesus came from Heaven to earth in His Deity to live amongst us and to be tempted to sin, yet to remain faithful to Father and go to the cross for the sin of the whole world. We must grasp the reality of life, death and resurrection of Jesus. Our life depends upon it!
Heavenly Father;
Thank You for sending Jesus and for the compassion and love He showed to those who came to Him and trusted in Him. Thank You for Your great compassion and love that was expressed by sending Jesus to the cross for our sins. Thank You for Your Holy Spirit who strengthens us and helps us to know Jesus and to be filled with all Your goodness and love. Thank You for life in Christ You offer us and for the faith to receive Him. Thank You for the opportunities You give us to serve You and to be in fellowship with You. May our hearts to faithful and true to You. May we chose You over all we see and feel. May we walk by faith and trust in You. May we not be swayed by the crowds and the ways of this world. Please help us when we are overwhelmed by grief and are weary by the pressures of this world and the weakness of our humanity – please help us to run to You as our refuge and help. Please help us to love You with all our hearts, minds, soul, and strength. Please go before us and guide our way. Please help us hold onto our faith and always remember who You are. You are our Creator, our Redeemer, our Comforter, our Peace, our Solid Rock, our Life, You are everything to us. You are all we need. May our faith be strengthened as we continue to trust in You when things are difficult and when we are tempted to be led by our emotions and circumstances. Please help us to please You in our walks of faith. Please help us to be watching for You, Lord Jesus. Please help our families to receive You and to be ready when You come back for Your church.
Please help our pastors and leaders who serve You. Please strengthen them in their faith and their walks with Jesus. Please continue to open doors for them to serve you. Please strengthen Your church and help all who come regularly to be actively seeking You every day and to be loving and serving You with all their hearts, minds, souls, and strength. You are worthy of all honor, praise and glory. We love You, Lord Jesus. We praise Your name. In Your name we pray. Amen.